I have been struggling with my panic/anxiety and my agoraphobia during the pandemic. In the beginning it didn’t seem as bad, there was a level of distraction and shock. Then things got crazy so fast and then came the lockdown. When that started I was ‘ok’, I saw it as an opportunity get some things done around my house. At first that’s what I did, I cleaned, I went through things, I cooked and I stayed home. But then things starting get worse with the virus and I started having trouble. I couldn’t concentrate on anything and then I became what I would call non-functional. I would spend an entire day in bed, or just sitting. I was aware of this behavior; I just couldn’t seem to do anything about it. I knew I couldn’t continue this way, so I pushed myself to get up and I used something I learned in therapy. When I started working toward going outside Dr Eppler told me to get dressed like I was going somewhere to create a mindset of going. So, I tried that now, I got up, showered and got dressed. Some days I still did not do anything, but I figured at least I had gotten dressed, I took that as progress.
I became scared that my years of hard work and progress with my agoraphobia would disappear, I don’t want to start over again. I tried to reach out to a couple of people that had provided me with motivation before, but no luck. I am alone and that wasn’t helping either. I had tried being busy, I switched my small business to making fabric face masks, that helped some. One day I realized I was basically living in my bedroom, this reminded me too much of my agoraphobia. All I knew was I needed to figure out why this was happening so I could hopefully find a way to deal with it.
Obviously, coronavirus is affecting my anxiety, as I have mentioned before I am immunocompromised, I have primary immune deficiency. I was given information from some of my doctors about precautions I need to take and how to protect myself. I was also told that if I get this my chances of surviving are not good. Another contributing factor was the isolation, I have used social interaction to motivate me with my agoraphobia, now that is gone. Just like when I was stuck in my house, I feel like life is passing me by, this time I worry if I can catch back up with it. Then there was the question I asked my infectious disease doctor, I asked how long these precautions would be necessary for people like me. She said till at least March 2021, but she feels it will be extended till later in the year. That felt like getting hit by a truck. I again found myself non-functional. Adding to the anxiety now is the spike in cases of Covid-19.
So, as of now, I am experimenting to find things that might help. I have increased my daily exercise. Normally I do 1 hour at home and 1 hour at the gym, but of course the gym is off limits for me till maybe next year. I have found that exercise really helps my anxiety. I am trying to do better about being productive, like working, cooking and cleaning. I am still filling mask orders, but I am also back producing the regular products for my business. I am limiting my outings, which I have tried to do all along. I don’t go out until I have 3 or 4 things I need to take care of. I get dressed most days, whether I am going out or not. And some days that includes accessories, something that I love and something that feels normal. I have pushed myself to eat meals at the dining table or at least not in my bedroom. I have started some creative projects like painting. I am still struggling with motivation and focus, but hopefully that will get better.
As I type these words, I can feel the anxiety, panic and fear in them. I will continue to share how I am doing. It will be like journaling, that will give me a much needed outlet to talk about it. And if any of you are dealing with increased panic and anxiety please feel free to share it in a comment. I am holding on to hope that there is a way to get through this; holding on to hope has gotten me this far.